So, if you’re reading this, you must a bit nervous and sweating, especially if you still haven’t chosen the appropriate ring. Oh boy, so many things to see to. You really want it to be prefect, special, romantic, but for heaven’s sake, not tacky! What people really want, regardless what we’re talking about, is to get something personal, something customized, made just for them, and not some template or cliché.

So before you even start reading this text, sit and think what is it that your better half really likes, enjoys, is into or is like. If you’re still out of ideas, here are a few pieces of advice, just to inspire you and get you going. But at least try and think of a customized ring, the most expensive one doesn’t always have to be the best. Check this trend out https://emersonandfarrar.com/pages/die-struck-engagement-rings.

Out of the Blue

If you really don’t have to, do not propose on vacation. That’s really a cliché, even if it’s the most romantic place on earth. Not always and not necessarily, but it could suggest you’re not one hundred percent convinced in the positive response, as being away from home, “stuck” with you could in a way “push” your partner to say “yes”, especially if you do it at the beginning of your vacation. If, on the other hand, you opt to wait for the very last day of it, my goodness, you’re going to ruin your vacation (and possibly your partner’s) as you’ll certainly be edgy, nervous and awkward most of the time, doing your best not to be busted, worrying about the outcome and so on.

Public proposals are also a bit “cornering”, so it’s best to avoid them unless you’re BOTH really, really into it. Special occasions like anniversaries, Valentine’s, romantic dinners are all quite predictable and suspicious. So, why not do it just out of the blue? While you’re making dinner, watching a movie or just having your morning coffee? But you want it to be really special? Isn’t this the best way to say your every moment together is so special and unique? At least think about it as on option, in the time when everyone’s making up so many things, pushing everything a bit over the top, why not pull back and do something truly unexpected? It won’t mean you haven’t made a special effort as it will definitely be a huge surprise.

“Husband Hunting”

If, on the other hand, you really want something out of the ordinary in every sense, and you’re both more into action and adventure, here’s an idea. I suppose you’ve all heard of Room Escape and similar games? Why not arrange a group, not-so-romantic activity, maybe have your friends cancel in the nick of time and make your better half sweat for the “reward” a little. I’m sure the game center staff will be more than happy to assist in this sly venture.

Also, there are so many themes you can choose, so you can find something that’s really interesting and important for your significant other. It requires some effort, it’s not something you’d expect, and you’ll both be super busy solving the mystery, so there’ll be no time for suspicion. (Also, you might want to make sure you DO solve the mystery).

Stargazing

If you two are romantic, nerdy and somewhat introvert, why not consider your local planetarium as “the place”? What’s more romantic than watching the stars? And not only stars, but moons, planets, the cosmos? Quite mind-blowing, right? Makes you realize how tiny you are, yet an important part of the whole cosmic play, especially when in apair.

It’s fun, it’s interesting, it’s revealing, it puts everything into perspective, including your love. Again, you can go with a group visit to avoid suspicion and arrange with the staff to stay a little longer. It will be a romantic proposal under the stars, only with a scientific background, you know, just to keep the equilibrium between heart and mind.

If you haven’t found your special proposal idea on this list, hopefully, it has at least gotten you to think of some more ideas.

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